I’ve decided not to separate my blog life and my “real life” anymore. So I have also decided not to have separate Facebook accounts. Instead, I have just set up a blog page that is connected to my personal account. Why not? I’ve got nothing to hide or be ashamed about, and if my family doesn’t want to know something I put on here they can skip that post. 
So “Like” me. My page is http://www.facebook.com/beingabeautifulmesss.
I was reading the post of one of my favorite bloggers when I had an epiphany of sorts. Her last few posts have been about trust, which you know is on my mind a lot. In the post Reflections on trust, she talks about all the ways her husband’s lies have affected her and made […]
The concept of trust is something that I struggled with in my last relationship quite a bit (as you know if you’ve read this blog at all). As I move forward and put my past behind me, I know that I will also need to open my heart and learn to trust again. In theory, that […]
Today at work my Office Manager said that she hadn’t heard me mention how Mr. Mess is doing lately. I told her that’s because we’re getting a divorce. At first she was slighty surprised, mostly because she didn’t notice that I haven’t been wearing my wedding rings in some time. Then, the truth started rolling right […]
Reblogged from EndOfMyMarriage: Mr. Messed Up has been reading my writing. I think I communicate better this way, where I can edit and distill my thoughts till they become clear. I told him about it because I wanted him to appreciate the damage he’s caused, to see it in black and white. Sometimes my anger […]
Yesterday morning my husband and I had our marriage counseling session. He was late, and for the first time ever (seriously) our marriage therapist was running a bit early. That meant I had about 5 minutes or so to tell our therapist the story of the straw that broke the camel’s back. Okay, it was […]
Glad you decided to do that! And you’re right, you have nothing to be ashamed about! Just “Liked” your Facebook page.
Thank you!!!
I realized there is no point in trying to keep things separate. I don’t have secrets. I’m not worried about people knowing about my life. I’m so done with lying, even passive lying like hiding my blog.