I just wanted to let everyone know that I’m still around. I haven’t dropped off the face of the planet. :) Things at work have been super busy, which has been a good thing and a bad thing. Last night I didn’t get off work until 8:00 pm! My dog misses me and gets super clingy on those days, but then we cuddle and he’s okay again. Tonight I’m going out to have some fun with friends. I feel kinda awkward posting on here until my divorce is final, just in case… But I did want to say that I miss you all soooo much!
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There’s No Coming Back From the Dead
I was reading the post of one of my favorite bloggers when I had an epiphany of sorts. Her last few posts have been about trust, which you know is on my mind a lot. In the post Reflections on trust, she talks about all the ways her husband’s lies have affected her and made […]
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Thoughts & Quotes About Trust
The concept of trust is something that I struggled with in my last relationship quite a bit (as you know if you’ve read this blog at all). As I move forward and put my past behind me, I know that I will also need to open my heart and learn to trust again. In theory, that […]
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It’s Funny What People Will Tell You When They Know Things Are Over
Today at work my Office Manager said that she hadn’t heard me mention how Mr. Mess is doing lately. I told her that’s because we’re getting a divorce. At first she was slighty surprised, mostly because she didn’t notice that I haven’t been wearing my wedding rings in some time. Then, the truth started rolling right […]
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Operating with integrity when it feels so good to act like an ass
Reblogged from EndOfMyMarriage: Mr. Messed Up has been reading my writing. I think I communicate better this way, where I can edit and distill my thoughts till they become clear. I told him about it because I wanted him to appreciate the damage he’s caused, to see it in black and white. Sometimes my anger […]
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The Start of Our Separation Guidelines
Yesterday morning my husband and I had our marriage counseling session. He was late, and for the first time ever (seriously) our marriage therapist was running a bit early. That meant I had about 5 minutes or so to tell our therapist the story of the straw that broke the camel’s back. Okay, it was […]
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