Once again it is time for my silly Monday list of random questions to answer. I got this one from the archives of Sunday Stealing. Without further ado, here it is:
1. Have you ever licked the back of a CD to try to get it to work?
I don’t even know what this means, and have no intention of finding out. No.
2. What’s the largest age difference between yourself and someone you’ve dated?
20 years. With my husband.
3. Ever been in a car wreck?
Yes, when I was in high school. My friend was driving and rear-ended someone. I was very, very glad that I had my seat belt on. It is one of the reasons that I always wear it.
4. Were you popular in high school?
Not in the least. Unless you count my chorus friends. I had a lot of those, and they came from all sorts of “clicks.” Overall, though, I was made fun of and not very accepted. That’s what happens when you are new(ish) to the school, introverted, have a sarcastic sense of humor that no one gets, and are super devoted to your studies (I graduated with a 4.3 GPA). I’m just fine with that, though, because I like who I am and I think they are the ones who missed out!
5. Have you ever been on a blind date?
Absolutely not. I would never go for anything like that.
6. Are looks important?
Not in the traditional sense. I don’t really care if someone could be a super model or not. In the looks department what matters the most is being well-groomed. Besides that personality really is key!
7. Do you have any friends that you’ve known for 10 years or more?
Not really, unless you count family. See previous question re: popularity. I have a few people that I still keep in contact with via Facebook, but I don’t really think that counts.
8. By what age would you like to be married?
I’m already married, so I don’t think this question really applies. However, I will say that I never had a “taget age” for marriage. I’m not really someone who cares about that type of thing. I have always marched to the beat of my own drummer.
9. Does the number of people a person’s slept with affect your view of them?
I would like to say no because I don’t like to think of myself as a judgemental person, but in reality it absolutely does. I was raised in a very conservative home, and I still have some deeply ingrained traditional values. I can’t reconcile sleeping around with my view of the world and the importance of committment and monogamy. I do think of both men and women who have a lot of sexual partners as sluts. If that offends you, I apologize, but I firmly believe that sex is something that is important, special, and that should not be given away lightly.
10. Have you ever made a mistake?
What kind of question is that? Everyone has made a mistake of some sort. I have made many mistakes in my life, and I’m sure I will make many more before I am gone.
11. Are you a good tipper?
If I have a good server. I don’t believe in free rides just because you are a warm body, though. There is some standard of service that I expect, and I tip on a sliding scale according to how well those standards are met.
12. What’s the most you have spent for a haircut?
Probably somewhere in the neighborhood of $60, including a (generous) tip. A good hair style (and stylist) is important. I also only really indulge about once per year, so I don’t mind paying a little more than the Great Clips $12 discount price. I usually take care of trims myself, or get my Mom to tackle bigger shape-ups.
13. Have you ever had a crush on a teacher?
Yes, I think so. Although keep in mind that my rather naïve version of a crush generally just meant that I was attracted to his incredible knowledge. The idea of actually making out with or going any further than that with a teacher always grossed me out.
14. Have you ever peed in public?
I’m not sure what this question is really asking. Are you asking if I have used a public restroom? The answer to that is of course.
15. What song do you want played at your funeral?
I’m not really sure. I haven’t thought about that. I sing at funerals pretty regularly, though. I do like the version of Amazing Grace by Chris Tomlin. Here’s the video. It still gives me chills every time I watch it.
16. Would you tell your parents if you were gay?
Funny that would be one of the questions… I have already told my parents that I am bisexual. In fact, I lived with a partner of the same sex for several years before I met and married my husband. Honestly, I believe it is incredibly important to be who you are. It wasn’t easy telling my parents, especially since we are in the south and they are incredibly religious. I couldn’t live a lie, though.
17. What would your last meal be before getting executed?
I would hope that I will never have to deal with that. I don’t plan to murder anyone. However, I’ll entertain this for the heck of it… I would want my last meal to be home-made macaroni and cheese, a filet mignon, crabs, and a giant piece of double chocolate cake with vanilla ice cream.
18. Beatles or Stones?
Neither… I was not alive during the time that either of those bands were big. My understanding is that their time was in the 60s and 70s. I wasn’t even a twinkle in my parents’ eyes at that point (as the saying goes).
19. If you had to pick one person on earth to die, who would it be?
That’s a really weird question. I don’t know everyone on earth, so I don’t know how to answer it. I guess one of the active serial killers who are operating in the country.
20. Beer, wine or hard liquor?
White wine or flavored rum, please! I have had to swear all alcohol off due to my antidepressant medication, though.
21. Do you have any phobias?
I don’t really think so. I am terrified of dying in a fire, though. I think that would be the worst death I can imagine… Other than torture. I really can’t handle torture, even in movies and TV shows. It’s just awful. I don’t think that is necessarily a phobia, though.
22. What are your plans for the future?
Keep growing and changing to be the best version of me that I can be.