I wanted to reblog this topic today because it is still something we are dealing with, and a friend of mine is going through something similar. Sex addicts trying to recover deal with a lot of fear around sex. Spouses also deal with the uncertainty of not feeling wanted by the addict. It can be a tricky time, and communication is key!
I have to warn you now, this topic is personal. I have grappled a bit with if I should post it, but I decided to take my own advice from my last post and be honest. I know this will probably make my husband uncomfortable, so I apologize in advance to Mr. Mess. I just feel like I need to get this out there and talk about it so maybe someone else in a similar situation won’t feel like they are all alone.
I have heard from lots of people about their hysterical bonding after DDay. That never happened for us. We maybe had a slight upswing in our sex life a few months in, but nothing drastic or immediate. Now things are back down to pre-DDay levels which is around 1-2 times per week if I’m super lucky.
I’m a very sexual woman. I have always heard that men are…
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