I’ve decided not to separate my blog life and my “real life” anymore. So I have also decided not to have separate Facebook accounts. Instead, I have just set up a blog page that is connected to my personal account. Why not? I’ve got nothing to hide or be ashamed about, and if my family doesn’t want to know something I put on here they can skip that post. 🙂
So “Like” me. My page is http://www.facebook.com/beingabeautifulmesss.
Last Friday morning I was in my car, parked on the street around the corner from work, trying to get my emotions under control. I had tears streaking down my cheeks, runny mascara, and a splotchy face. I wasn’t crying because something horrible happened. Those tears weren’t bad at all. However, I’ve been conditioned to […]
I was reading the post of one of my favorite bloggers when I had an epiphany of sorts. Her last few posts have been about trust, which you know is on my mind a lot. In the post Reflections on trust, she talks about all the ways her husband’s lies have affected her and made […]
The concept of trust is something that I struggled with in my last relationship quite a bit (as you know if you’ve read this blog at all). As I move forward and put my past behind me, I know that I will also need to open my heart and learn to trust again. In theory, that […]
Today at work my Office Manager said that she hadn’t heard me mention how Mr. Mess is doing lately. I told her that’s because we’re getting a divorce. At first she was slighty surprised, mostly because she didn’t notice that I haven’t been wearing my wedding rings in some time. Then, the truth started rolling right […]
This is something that I am working on right now – letting go of his recovery. It is on him. He needs to learn to take positive action for himself. If we have any chance of ever making this marriage work there can be no more lies. He has to take responsibility for really doing the […]
Being a Beautiful Mess 
Hey! Would you mind if I share your blog with my twitter group?
There’s a lot of folks that I think would really enjoy your content.
Please let me know. Thank you
Go for it!
First off I would like to say terrific blog! I had a quick question that I’d like to
ask if you don’t mind. I was interested to know how you
center yourself and clear your head before writing.
I’ve had a difficult time clearing my mind in getting my thoughts out.
I do take pleasure in writing however it
just seems like the first 10 to 15 minutes are usually lost just
trying to figure out how to begin. Any ideas or tips?
Cheers!
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Glad you decided to do that! And you’re right, you have nothing to be ashamed about! Just “Liked” your Facebook page.
Thank you!!! 🙂 I realized there is no point in trying to keep things separate. I don’t have secrets. I’m not worried about people knowing about my life. I’m so done with lying, even passive lying like hiding my blog.